SSY- Learning TRUST , RESPONSIBILITY ,through simple game.

This weekend I went to SSY retreat and experience was wonderful. We do one adventure/ trek , I want to share U the experience of it. We want to do 1 simple trek and we created groups of 3 people. In between 3 people, 1 person is blindfolded(eyes tied with cloth) and other 2 person must take care of him and all 3 should complete the trek without any injury or failures.In Addition to that , there was silence also , means no one will speak.

As 1 person is is blindfolded other must took care of him as best as possible. We decided how to give the instructions to that blind folded person
1] lift his left hand to say that we have to go left
2] lift his right hand to say that we have to go right
3] lift hand up to show that , lift the leg to climb
4] pull hand down to show that there is depth
5] to stop him we clap on his shoulder

The learning was excellent. We guided him well. we folded his pant so that it should not get muddy(rain was there ). we help him to put his legs at proper place , we bend his head to avoid any collision with dangerous objects. We took good care.

After some time I was blindfolded. I was relaxed and confident that other 2 will carry me safely , I also following their instructions carefully and moving forward carefully.

Learning was great-------
1] When someone trust on you , you always give your 100% to insure to respect that trust
2] When you trust on someone , you get relaxed as you are confident on that person
3] Trust does not mean that you are careless about the things that are happening but "you are aware" of
what is happening.

It Is All About Business

Today I read the news "Satyam planning to layoff 5000 people in 1st phase". Before 2/3 months one of my relative left the satyam and joined the good company. At that time Satyam was saying to its people "Don't leave the company, be with the company , we will come as a team to overcome this difficult situation ......"

At that time I was also feeling that people should remain with the company and help to recover the damage. Now They don't want some employees so thay are planning to layoff them . As a buziness point of view it is a good move , but what about employees who will lost there jobs? what about Satyam's previous call to employees(don't leave , we will work as a team and .....)

Now I realize that , a person who left the company and joined other company was cleaver and took correct decision.

From this I learn 1 simple thing

"IT IS ALL ABOUT BUSINESS"

Companies doing a business , We should do the business with companies , when companies don't need particular person then they can remove them, sideline them.

Lesson is improve yourself , do job as a business(give good to company and accept good from company) ,take good opportunities to move forward ..

Finally It is a business ....................................

IMP : Do not become emotional , be practical about your job

BJP must strict to its Agenda

BJP should not go with the NDA.BJP should scrap the concept of NDA. If bjp really thinks that they have good ideas and correct principles, then they should plan to fight with this good point in all over India(in all states and in all seats). the concept of NDA came for achieving the power(which leads to common agenda , which means BJP left some of its points ).Here I want to note that if you thinks that your agenda is correct then for achieving the power you are compromising some issues, and for the power if you are compromising the agenda then it is not a good thing. No matter whether you get the power or not , you should strict with your agenda. If you fill that some points in the agenda are wrong then discard it and commit to the public that these points are wrong and we are removing them.BJP should maintain its character(it should be world class) . There may be some elements who need power, let them go but you should not compromise for tour agenda and value

It you are honest,true, and good values with best character then you will definatly get the best ,but it requires some time and strict to agenda.

RSS is built on strict principles (without any compromise) only. RSS grow with the help of there "Swayansevaks"(who had best characters ,love with the country and its country men) and there behavior in the society only. BJP should follow the same path of RSS (I think they are not on parallel track with the RSS , they changed some direction(effect of power))

Do the work immediately

In last 2/3 weeks I planed to finish my tasks as early as I can. For that when i found such specific tasks(may be small or big) to do , I started to note down them and thought about "what should be the best time to do this task?". I specified timing to each task (when can i do the task?) and started to work on them. The experience was the best. I became more happy as I am finishing tasks in time. Also I became relaxed. I found that many of task's best time was "right now" , such tasks I finished immediately.

Try it and experience the difference.

BJP in oppsition is best for INDIA

The BJP has good people , they have good ideas, then want to do best for the INDIA which is the important quality for the opposition party , as their main task is keeping "EYE" on the government and for the government's wrong decisions they must oppose to government.
So I personally fill that Best party should be in opposition rather than in Government.

Like in our software development , I fill that "Testers and testcases" are more important between the development and product release.

Same way in financial sector , Auditors job is more important than normal companies working.

Experiance of Good Team

I like to tell here my experience with the best Team . 2/3 years back In RSS i was the part of one event named as "GURUVAR MILAN " , which was specially for the people who came outside of pune and who are students. We are about 15 friends and that event was on every "Thursday 8.00 p.m.". There was one senior person , who also the part of our team, The team was so great that we all were working as a part of one team. Due to our core team more and more students were also joining us , as team was growing , some senior people thought that now we should use this team's member's and they started to assign some different task to some members.the objective was good but that breaks the team spirit and that team's power got lost and 1 day that event get stopped.

There are still efforts happening for running that event. In last week i went to that event where 1 of my friend met me and he simply told that---- "This team is not looking like the team that we were the part of.That team was great."

That friends word still i am remembering and also remembering that Team also.

This was the experience and same filling I was filling in mithi also that our current team is the best team.

Failure in selection of candidate for Padama awards

Today I read a news that ----

"Dhoni and off-spinner Harbhajan Singh were absent from Padma awards function, which was held at the Rashtrapati Bhavan in New Delhi on Tuesday"

We , as a indian should not point toward these cricketers but we must point toward the selection panel who selected them to this award. It is a total failure of selection. these cricketers were "so buzy..." that they failed to attend the function were president is giving the "COUNTRY'S AWARD" ... very interesting

I personally fill that selection panel's first and most important criteria should be "Select the candidate who has love and respect to the country , no matter what is his success story or how much big his success"

these cricketers behavior clearly shows no love and respect to the country.

"The Impossible Dream" from MAN OF LA MANCHA (1972)

"The Impossible Dream"
from MAN OF LA MANCHA (1972)

To dream ... the impossible dream ...

To fight ... the unbeatable foe ...

To bear ... with unbearable sorrow ...

To run ... where the brave dare not go ...

To right ... the unrightable wrong ...

To love ... pure and chaste from afar ...

To try ... when your arms are too weary ...

To reach ... the unreachable star ...

This is my quest, to follow that star ...

No matter how hopeless, no matter how far ...

To fight for the right, without question or pause ...

To be willing to march into Hell, for a Heavenly cause ...

And I know if I'll only be true, to this glorious quest,

That my heart will lie will lie peaceful and calm,

when I'm laid to my rest ...

And the world will be better for this:

That one man, scorned and covered with scars,

Still strove, with his last ounce of courage,

To reach ... the unreachable star ...

Good Rules are very Important for Good life

Good Rules are very Important for Good life

I am sharing 1 experience here.
I used to go to the dinner on random time. Sometime at 8.00 p.m., 8.30,9,9.30 sometime it crosses 10 also. My parents always tells me that take dinner early so that you will get 1 or 1 and 1/2 hr to digest before sleep , as it is not good that eat and sleep immediately. But it is not happening from me because the hotel where i took dinner is allowing entry till 10.30 so i also goes at 10, 10.15.

After someday i changed the hotel and i figured out that i started to take dinner between 8.30 to 9 on regular basis. This happens because that hotel has strict rule that they are not allowing customers after 9.30 p.m. This rule automatically effected on me and now I get 1 and 1/2 hour daily after the dinner which is good for health.

Conclusion is that If the rules are good then we must accept them and follow them , which will help ourselves only and not to others .

[ Note : Now a days it is becoming a fashion of breaking the rules , by a thought that no one can punish us but ultimately we are only the persons who will affected by breaking the rules ]

Actions are more important than just analysis

Actions are more important than just analysis
On Sunday i attended the Narendra Modiji's rally in Pune.He was the chief person for that rally to guide the youths.They was discussing the issue related to latest Mumbai blast. they give some interesting examples which i liked very much.

1] We are giving proofs to America and saying look how is Pakistan and do something for it. Modiji gave simple example , what will you do, if your neighbour came to you and started fighting with you ? Are you going to complaint it to another neighbour or will you give a perfect answer by replying in similar way so that he will never dare to repeat it.

2] What will you do if there is a fire in your society and you are eating some good delicious food into home.Are you continue with the food or are you going to rush to help.(this reference came from shivaraj patil's answer over the changing dress 3 times when blast happen )

3] what modiji done when there was bomb blast in Gujarat --
He told that we have arrested the people not only from Gujarat but from Jammu to kerala, even from Maharashtra.we are committed to teach the lesson to these people. At that time Maharashtra CM told o modi that our police department's moral is going to reduce as your police picking up persons from Maharashtra which are related to Gujarat blast . Modi told that, you have not taken action before the blast so now don't disturb our police force.

From all these examples i learned following things----
1] We must take strong actions without just analyzing the things . Actions are MUST.
2] Why should ask to 3rd person to solve our problem , we MUST HAVE have enough courage, dare and power to fight the situation.
3] If anyone need help , we should rush to help him by giving the highest priority.