One of my uncle always asks for all people, "Why are you not speaking true ?". They always insist for speaking true(NO MATTER WHAT).I also started thinking and I got very basic funda.
How 1 lie can lead you to Failure.
Suppose you are learning some thing from your teacher and teacher ask you , "Do you understand what I am saying? "
We answer it as "Yes" (Though we fail to understand ) , teacher goes to next level.Then we start facing
problems (Because that 1 lie created us incapable to learn some thing bigger) when we face the problem at that level, we again start lying.... Ultimately we never achieve and we never learn the things
So 1 small basic principle "speak true" can lead us to great achievement.
Also when you start speaking true, it is automatically start accepting the failures, and when you accepts the failure points then you have a space to find solution on your failures , if you have not accepted that you are fail, how can we improve and become successful?
After thinking on same line -- I observe that , In schools also , when teacher teaches to 50/60 students, and finishes one topic, they asks "Do you all understand ?" answer from whole class is "YES " , actually it the only 10/20 % student , who actually understands it , but all say "YES" (lying) , and there the problem starts.
which leads to failure in big exams ... and everywhere.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Monday, October 5, 2009
Champions Trophy NZ Vs Pak Match
Champions Trophy NZ Vs Pak Match
On Saturday I watched the match and enjoyed.
Some key points from that --
1] after losing 9 wickets near 195, PAK managed to get 233. Failure of NZ bowlers to get last wicket.Nz failed to "sop and think" in last 5 overs which give PAK 35 runs more
2] After NZ lost 4 early wickets , the cleaver batting of vittory and it Batsman partner gives NZ a Win in semi
3] Pak captain drooped easy catch which became very costly to PAK
4] Cool bating by NZ
5] Proper Use of Power Play in last section of match by NZ as ball-to-run diff was started increasing to 6 and more ..
6] "Undisciplined bowling" by PAK bowlers which leads to No Balls and free hits helped NZ more.
On Saturday I watched the match and enjoyed.
Some key points from that --
1] after losing 9 wickets near 195, PAK managed to get 233. Failure of NZ bowlers to get last wicket.Nz failed to "sop and think" in last 5 overs which give PAK 35 runs more
2] After NZ lost 4 early wickets , the cleaver batting of vittory and it Batsman partner gives NZ a Win in semi
3] Pak captain drooped easy catch which became very costly to PAK
4] Cool bating by NZ
5] Proper Use of Power Play in last section of match by NZ as ball-to-run diff was started increasing to 6 and more ..
6] "Undisciplined bowling" by PAK bowlers which leads to No Balls and free hits helped NZ more.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Today's Thought
First person who is leading on new road should be more careful, more disciplined ,he should document every incidence ,every problem and every difficult situation, if is even more better if is solves difficulties ,because after him, there is a whole team which follows him and if that person have done the best job then there will be very less difficulties to his team otherwise every team member will suffer a lot and does same mistake again and again
So choose a good person who is going in the 1st situation, and that person should take all measures so that team will suffer less.
So choose a good person who is going in the 1st situation, and that person should take all measures so that team will suffer less.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Stared to go in SHAKHA and Enjoying SURYANAMASKAR also
For many days i was started o miss some habits.My surya namskars stopped , I started to woke up late (7.30).
Not happy with the day to day things, nothing was happening , many tasks are pending in todo list, It was becoming more critical o me to control all this things
I was realized that , there is a lack of some good thoughts , culture, good environment. Then I started to read
the book "KARYAKARTA" -- by Dattopant Thengadi (RSS PRACHARAK) , i read first few pages and in that i saw that, Golvalkar Guruji was alway strict about "Daily Shakha". they have given some examples and explained that the people who was with the RSS and now found "corrupt/misbehaving/characterless", these all people are not doing "Daily Shakha".
I became confident on the given example.When you goto "shakha" you will get good "sanskar" and when
you salute to our guru "Bhagava dhwaj" you will come on right track and automatically "bad thinking" get lost.
Guruji was alway telling that if you continue daily shakha , there are very very less chances of misbehave from
you. I am also 100% confidennt on this principle so .. I stated to go "daily shakha " and immediate effect is that my "Surya Namaskar " also get started , which was stopped from few days
Surya Namaskars are becoming very effective to me , when i do the surya Namaskar , the whole day became energetic
with clean mind , with happiness , and every thing with my side
when I miss Surya Namaskar , the day became exactly opposite.
So I must remain with the Daily Surya Namaskar.
Not happy with the day to day things, nothing was happening , many tasks are pending in todo list, It was becoming more critical o me to control all this things
I was realized that , there is a lack of some good thoughts , culture, good environment. Then I started to read
the book "KARYAKARTA" -- by Dattopant Thengadi (RSS PRACHARAK) , i read first few pages and in that i saw that, Golvalkar Guruji was alway strict about "Daily Shakha". they have given some examples and explained that the people who was with the RSS and now found "corrupt/misbehaving/characterless", these all people are not doing "Daily Shakha".
I became confident on the given example.When you goto "shakha" you will get good "sanskar" and when
you salute to our guru "Bhagava dhwaj" you will come on right track and automatically "bad thinking" get lost.
Guruji was alway telling that if you continue daily shakha , there are very very less chances of misbehave from
you. I am also 100% confidennt on this principle so .. I stated to go "daily shakha " and immediate effect is that my "Surya Namaskar " also get started , which was stopped from few days
Surya Namaskars are becoming very effective to me , when i do the surya Namaskar , the whole day became energetic
with clean mind , with happiness , and every thing with my side
when I miss Surya Namaskar , the day became exactly opposite.
So I must remain with the Daily Surya Namaskar.
Not being with Truth and not doing the Honest work
As i am looking and analising the normal life of a person , i understood that most of the problems are coming because people are not with the side of TRUTH or then don't want to do HONEST work(Because it needsmore efforts )
Examples :
1] False commitment
commitment of doing things which are not possible , because we are getting some thing valuable for it
3] Try to show the things that we don' have
4] try to show the capabilities that we don't have
5] giving prefrence to the wrong person(because of some relaionship) than quality persons
No. of people who are honest is also very few(may be 1% only)
All people are only moving towards earning money (no matter how is the character of the person)
Employees are dishonest also employer are dishonest. There is a cold war between them. Everyone want to take advantage of the situation.
Quality is also decreasing, Every product has decreased by it previous quality because of speed and money.
People want low cost products,emplyee wants high salaries, Employer want more profit , then who is going to suffer ?
It is the quality of product which is suffering day by day .
Means ---LOOP OF DISHONESTY ---- NEED TO BREAK IT
By doing dishonest work , not being with truth , what people achieve ?
ans : MONEY
For What is the use of that money ?
RELAXNESS
1] Luxurious Flats
2] Cars .......
3] Enjoying more and more relaxness
4] Spending more and more money on luxury items, unneceesary items
LEADS TO ---> MORE REQUIRMENT OF MONEY --> DO THE DISHONEST WORK , GOING AGAINST THE TRUTH---> CREATES MANY PROBLEMS INCLUDING HELTH PROBLEMS ---> AGAIN SPEND MONEY ON IT ---> AGAIN CHANGE LIFESTYLE TO EARN MORE MONEY --->
LOOP starts executing ...
How can I stop this ------
1] Being with Truth ....
Lot of problems will not come only.
2] Do the honest work
Which will break the DISHONESTY loop and starts the HONEST loop , which will give the +ve outcomes.
3] Stop the rich lifestyle, reduce the requirements
which will reduce the requirement of money,will build the helth , and automatically there is no need to go with dishonesty and agaist TRUTH.
Examples :
1] False commitment
commitment of doing things which are not possible , because we are getting some thing valuable for it
3] Try to show the things that we don' have
4] try to show the capabilities that we don't have
5] giving prefrence to the wrong person(because of some relaionship) than quality persons
No. of people who are honest is also very few(may be 1% only)
All people are only moving towards earning money (no matter how is the character of the person)
Employees are dishonest also employer are dishonest. There is a cold war between them. Everyone want to take advantage of the situation.
Quality is also decreasing, Every product has decreased by it previous quality because of speed and money.
People want low cost products,emplyee wants high salaries, Employer want more profit , then who is going to suffer ?
It is the quality of product which is suffering day by day .
Means ---LOOP OF DISHONESTY ---- NEED TO BREAK IT
By doing dishonest work , not being with truth , what people achieve ?
ans : MONEY
For What is the use of that money ?
RELAXNESS
1] Luxurious Flats
2] Cars .......
3] Enjoying more and more relaxness
4] Spending more and more money on luxury items, unneceesary items
LEADS TO ---> MORE REQUIRMENT OF MONEY --> DO THE DISHONEST WORK , GOING AGAINST THE TRUTH---> CREATES MANY PROBLEMS INCLUDING HELTH PROBLEMS ---> AGAIN SPEND MONEY ON IT ---> AGAIN CHANGE LIFESTYLE TO EARN MORE MONEY --->
LOOP starts executing ...
How can I stop this ------
1] Being with Truth ....
Lot of problems will not come only.
2] Do the honest work
Which will break the DISHONESTY loop and starts the HONEST loop , which will give the +ve outcomes.
3] Stop the rich lifestyle, reduce the requirements
which will reduce the requirement of money,will build the helth , and automatically there is no need to go with dishonesty and agaist TRUTH.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Learning Team work by playing games
Learning Team work by playing games
from 2/3 days we are playing carrom in our company. Where i can understand how we can use this game to build the team work qualities. In doubles you need to play in team work and with correct strategy.Some of the learning's from this is as below--
1] you need to understand which coins your parter can take easily , so that you can attack on those coins that
he cannot take.
2] you need to coordinate with your parter for playing each coin.
3] You must listen to your parter and by matching with your view you need to take such decision which will help
to win the game
4] We must Analise the mistake and try to avoid it , instead of blaming each other.
5] some times we need play moves which will enable the parter to take a coin
6] Some time we need to leave our chance (with out touching any coin ) so that the parter can work and team
will win the game
Ultimate aim is "Team should win" and not "I should take more coins than every one "
from 2/3 days we are playing carrom in our company. Where i can understand how we can use this game to build the team work qualities. In doubles you need to play in team work and with correct strategy.Some of the learning's from this is as below--
1] you need to understand which coins your parter can take easily , so that you can attack on those coins that
he cannot take.
2] you need to coordinate with your parter for playing each coin.
3] You must listen to your parter and by matching with your view you need to take such decision which will help
to win the game
4] We must Analise the mistake and try to avoid it , instead of blaming each other.
5] some times we need play moves which will enable the parter to take a coin
6] Some time we need to leave our chance (with out touching any coin ) so that the parter can work and team
will win the game
Ultimate aim is "Team should win" and not "I should take more coins than every one "
Small Expences Big Benifits
Many time I realized that we miss to spend small amount of money to solve our important and major problems.Currently in pune there is a water problem . PMC suppling the water alternate day.I was discussing the problem with 1 of my friend and i realized that , why not create more boars to get the water? it is not banned in pune, not expensive also.
After 2 days 1 of my team lead told me that, in our society to took boaring ,and there water problem get solved complete.Cost is only Rs.60000/- for 200 ft and they distributed amoung 50 flat owners , so equation become only 1500/- per family.
The major problem get solved in only 1500/- where each family is earning min. 30000/- per month.
So outcome is spend money immediately wherever necessary and enjoy the good life
After 2 days 1 of my team lead told me that, in our society to took boaring ,and there water problem get solved complete.Cost is only Rs.60000/- for 200 ft and they distributed amoung 50 flat owners , so equation become only 1500/- per family.
The major problem get solved in only 1500/- where each family is earning min. 30000/- per month.
So outcome is spend money immediately wherever necessary and enjoy the good life
Less Food for dinner really helps to study at night
from 1 week i stopped my dinner which i was taking in my mess. I experience very nice thing
1] Previously i automatically fill sleepy after a full dinner , now i am filling fresh and i can spend more time after dinner to do my study
2] I realized that there is no any need/compulsion to take full dinner at night, we can take light food.Previously when i took this decision I was frightened internally but now I became confident.
1] Previously i automatically fill sleepy after a full dinner , now i am filling fresh and i can spend more time after dinner to do my study
2] I realized that there is no any need/compulsion to take full dinner at night, we can take light food.Previously when i took this decision I was frightened internally but now I became confident.
Monday, June 29, 2009
SSY- Learning TRUST , RESPONSIBILITY ,through simple game.
This weekend I went to SSY retreat and experience was wonderful. We do one adventure/ trek , I want to share U the experience of it. We want to do 1 simple trek and we created groups of 3 people. In between 3 people, 1 person is blindfolded(eyes tied with cloth) and other 2 person must take care of him and all 3 should complete the trek without any injury or failures.In Addition to that , there was silence also , means no one will speak.
As 1 person is is blindfolded other must took care of him as best as possible. We decided how to give the instructions to that blind folded person
1] lift his left hand to say that we have to go left
2] lift his right hand to say that we have to go right
3] lift hand up to show that , lift the leg to climb
4] pull hand down to show that there is depth
5] to stop him we clap on his shoulder
The learning was excellent. We guided him well. we folded his pant so that it should not get muddy(rain was there ). we help him to put his legs at proper place , we bend his head to avoid any collision with dangerous objects. We took good care.
After some time I was blindfolded. I was relaxed and confident that other 2 will carry me safely , I also following their instructions carefully and moving forward carefully.
Learning was great-------
1] When someone trust on you , you always give your 100% to insure to respect that trust
2] When you trust on someone , you get relaxed as you are confident on that person
3] Trust does not mean that you are careless about the things that are happening but "you are aware" of
what is happening.
As 1 person is is blindfolded other must took care of him as best as possible. We decided how to give the instructions to that blind folded person
1] lift his left hand to say that we have to go left
2] lift his right hand to say that we have to go right
3] lift hand up to show that , lift the leg to climb
4] pull hand down to show that there is depth
5] to stop him we clap on his shoulder
The learning was excellent. We guided him well. we folded his pant so that it should not get muddy(rain was there ). we help him to put his legs at proper place , we bend his head to avoid any collision with dangerous objects. We took good care.
After some time I was blindfolded. I was relaxed and confident that other 2 will carry me safely , I also following their instructions carefully and moving forward carefully.
Learning was great-------
1] When someone trust on you , you always give your 100% to insure to respect that trust
2] When you trust on someone , you get relaxed as you are confident on that person
3] Trust does not mean that you are careless about the things that are happening but "you are aware" of
what is happening.
Friday, June 5, 2009
It Is All About Business
Today I read the news "Satyam planning to layoff 5000 people in 1st phase". Before 2/3 months one of my relative left the satyam and joined the good company. At that time Satyam was saying to its people "Don't leave the company, be with the company , we will come as a team to overcome this difficult situation ......"
At that time I was also feeling that people should remain with the company and help to recover the damage. Now They don't want some employees so thay are planning to layoff them . As a buziness point of view it is a good move , but what about employees who will lost there jobs? what about Satyam's previous call to employees(don't leave , we will work as a team and .....)
Now I realize that , a person who left the company and joined other company was cleaver and took correct decision.
From this I learn 1 simple thing
"IT IS ALL ABOUT BUSINESS"
Companies doing a business , We should do the business with companies , when companies don't need particular person then they can remove them, sideline them.
Lesson is improve yourself , do job as a business(give good to company and accept good from company) ,take good opportunities to move forward ..
Finally It is a business ....................................
IMP : Do not become emotional , be practical about your job
At that time I was also feeling that people should remain with the company and help to recover the damage. Now They don't want some employees so thay are planning to layoff them . As a buziness point of view it is a good move , but what about employees who will lost there jobs? what about Satyam's previous call to employees(don't leave , we will work as a team and .....)
Now I realize that , a person who left the company and joined other company was cleaver and took correct decision.
From this I learn 1 simple thing
"IT IS ALL ABOUT BUSINESS"
Companies doing a business , We should do the business with companies , when companies don't need particular person then they can remove them, sideline them.
Lesson is improve yourself , do job as a business(give good to company and accept good from company) ,take good opportunities to move forward ..
Finally It is a business ....................................
IMP : Do not become emotional , be practical about your job
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About Me
- swaroop gokhale
- PUNE, MAHARASHTRA, India
- From India,Working as a senior software engineer